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Solid Dependable Friendships Help us to Live a Healthier Life
Close friendships are good for us. Research shows that our good friendships can help us to reduce our blood pressure, heart rate, and cholesterol levels, as well as to lower our stress levels. In other words, solid dependable friendships help us to live a healthier life.
The nice thing about our friendships is that they are ties we choose to develop, sustain, and nurture. When we are young, we seek companionship by befriending birds, cats, dolls, and stuffed animals. As we grow into adolescence and later into adulthood, good friends can become more than just companions. A good friend is there through the good and bad times.
A good friend is someone who loves you in spite of yourself. They laugh with you, cry with you, listen to your problems, tell you the truth when you don't want to hear it, and even keep your secrets.
While this information probably won't make you change how you feel about your friends, it may make you appreciate them even more.
A Good Wife is a Happy Life
When a man is 23/26 he needs a wife. Some young men like their future wives to be rich and rich only. A man of that sort will not getting a loving wife, But a box of gold and silver.
Other men like their wives to be of high families. they care greatly for that. they will be getting good names of families no more.
Others too may like their future wives to be beautiful. It is nice to have a beautiful wife, but beauty itself is not enough. A picture may be more beautiful than any lady, but a lady is better than any picture.
Some men of science like their wives to be of good learning. But a learned woman is not always a good wife. She may be good in science but bad in taking care of her family.
Then, how is it to get a good wife ?
If she is good looking and of a medium learning that is enough, but the Best thing in her is LOVE. She must love you as you love her. Love can make her every good thing. Her being rich or poor is nothing, and her being beautiful or ugly is not everything. A woman, as well as a man, can not change her body or face. There are no shops for selling nice legs or sweet eyes or rosy cheeks that stand for good.
To be good looking and Lovely is enough, but if she has more qualities ...it will be nice; Good luck.;)
(From a book)
Wars
Wars are just a source of suffering to human beings and to the whole creatures. Wars bring only disasters, pain, starvation and blood shed of innocent people; because, Wars are just the result of the evil motives of certain states, nations or individuals who persued their own economic or political benefits instead of the human welfare of a secure, stable and peaceful social envirnement.
All the divine religions command peace, tolerance and mercy. True believers do not engage in wars just untill fighting becomes compulsory; by means, when the other party attacks and no other alternatives except war remains. To put it in another way, God granted permission for war only for diffensive purposes.
According to Islam for instance, causing death of innocent people is one of the greatest sins, or just to put an end to one own's life is completely forbiden. For that reason, it is quite impossible for someone who believe in God to do such a thing. The only people who can do such a thing are those who have a very mistaken perception of the divine religions morality, who are under the influence of some atheist idiologioes and who have been brain washed with feelings of hatred and revenge.
Therefore, everybody must take the responsibility of inviting and telling such people God's words, which are based on concepts of morality, love, compassion, tolerance, sacrifice and peace for a better world.
A Letter
On Tuesday, Jul 22, 2008, X wrote:
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Thanks for mail..but sorry for the late reply.. I m in vacation now..So i couldn't log in.. I wasn't at home always.!
Again sorry...
Hmm.... About communism? :) I am a muslim.. And i respect my religion..It is the most important thing in my life.. I always love it.
But also i love coummnism.. Becasue I want to equality.. I am a Kurd.And i don't have a country.. I always have to live in other countires. ( as a refugee)
I can't speak in my real language..But i am still human.. I should do my culture.. But they don't allow it..
Anway.. I won't argue with u about communism.. I want it..Becasue I have a reason.. >> equality
Have a nice day... Thanks for mail.
My Reply:
It's impossible for a true believer in the Creator -Muslim, Christian, Jew- to believe in communism. It's like water and fire, they can't stand with each other. Because, you should know that the scientific basis of communism is Darwinism. And, Darwinism is an ideology which doesn't believe in the existence of the Almighty Allah(God). Darwinists say that the world doesn't have a Creator (Allah), the world came by chance!. Communists considered the book of Darwin "the Origin of Species" which contains the Theory of Evolution as their scientific background. In fact, they didn't adopt it for its scientific content rather than as a theory that serves their ideological goals; because, when science developed in the 20th century collapsed that theory scientifically and proved that this world is under the control of a great power, which is the power of the Almighty God.
If you have a look through history, and make a logical serious deep reading you will find that wars were the hand made of those (Communists & Capitalists-today-) who have a very mistaken perception of the divine religionS morality, who are under the influence of atheist ideologies and who have been brain washed with feelings of hatred and revenge.
It's my responsibility as a Muslim to make the others aware of the dangerous ideologies which some people may adopt without being conscious of its' origins and corrupted goals.
I don't say this because I'm a blind Muslim. I'm a person who read about the divine religions, I read about ideologies like communism, socialism, secularism...etc.
Then, I could know and feel the great Islamic faith. When you read the Noble Qur'an and the sayings of the last prophet (PBUH), you find that it is a real blessing bestowed to humanity, because the Islamic teachings give the real meaning of compassion, mercy, sacrifice, equality, tolerance, love and peace.
I know that some ones who pretend being Muslims, they do bad actions and corruption under the name of Islam, because of that they spoil the Image of Islam. To know the real Islam you should study the main sources of Islam, "the Noble Qur'an" and "the sayings and actions of the prophet Mohammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon Him".
One of the signs of the end times that the prophet (PBUH) mentioned 15 centuries ago, apart from the blood shed of innocent people, corruption, high price of goods...etc, it's the increase in adopting the atheist ideologies before the second coming of Jesus peace be upon him who will re-new the Islamic faith upon this earth and people will live in a real prosperity. After He will die, then the Faith will start to decrease again and people will become corrupt. Those who are good ones Allah will catch their Souls, then there will stay only the corrupt ones... before Allah will order the Angel of death to catch the souls of all the creatures in the heavens and upon the earth...etc. ( for more information, I will write in the website about the events of the end times and the other religions)
So, Communism will not solve your situation my friend. you should have a faith that makes you feel that no one possesses this earth, you are in the home that Allah created for all human beings to live in for a specific time. Don't disdain yourself and say I'm a refugee,, we are all refugees upon this earth. Allah says in the Qur'an " o people, we created you as male and female, and made you as tribes and nations so that you would know each other".In Islam, no one is better than the other, no white better than a black or a black better than a white... the better of you are the pure and righteous ones who help and serve people.
As the prophet (PBUH) mentioned: those who are ignorant -don't use their minds and feelings- they won't be able to reach the great Islamic teachings and understand it.
I wish you to take what I said into consideration... I wish you enjoy it and benefit from it as well.
May Allah/God guides us all to the true path, Ameen.
For Further Reading, visit the page of Creationism
